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Welcome to the illogic of English
Elliott's starting to notice more and more of our language. He's fond of repeating idioms and expressions that
can't be interpreted literally. The only one I can think of now is "wait a minute", which he sing-songs randomly
after we say it, sometimes. Words like "either" are interesting to him - "does Elliott like burned noodles?"
"no!" "mama doesn't like them either" "either?" and he'll keep asking "either?" until I try to explain what it
means. Well, that's a toughie. Sigh! He also gets confused when I say things like "cut up" or "wind up" - he'll
stare at me and say, "up??". Words like "parking lot" and "driveway" are also very interesting right now. His
parroting hasn't slowed down one bit.. It's a good thing he can't pronounce the "sh" sound yet, since we've
stubbed our toes and had a few not-so-proud-parent moments lately.
The many forms of "no"
"No" is being expanded on. Now, he will often say "No mama!" - sometimes in a silly "that's ridiculous" voice,
and sometimes in an indignant voice. I'm a little sick of hearing it, actually... "time for bed, lights out" ...
"NO Mama, jump on bed!" is a typical exchange.
Language isn't all bad news though. He sometimes will say "new diaper" if he needs a new diaper. He can pee
anytime we ask him to, on the potty. He's pretty excited about it. I sit him on the potty and then read a book
with him, and he will usually go pee. We're in no huge rush, but at least it's a positive experience for him
right now, and we can skip a few diapers here and there.
On being civilized
This week, Elliott said I love you (yuvyoo) for the first time, to Dada. It was very sweet. He says thank you
constantly, especially if he's trying to give you (or another animal) something. He's very nice and good at
sharing, so this happens a hundred times a day. If you don't take it, or don't notice, he'll say it louder and
louder until it's more of a demand. He's said you're welcome a few times, and we're still working on please.
He'll typically demand something, and we'll say, "can you ask nicely?" or "what do you say when you want mama to
give you something?" - then he'll follow with a sticky sweet smile and a high-pitched "eeeeezzz?".. then we'll
say, "can you ask in a normal voice?" and he'll say "eeeezzz" again in a low, husky voice. That's the best we can
do for now. He hasn't combined the demand with the please on his own yet (like "have it - water - please").
His sentences or strings of words are getting longer and more sensical, like "dada hug a bunny". He also makes
lists of things.. in the car, he often chants "Dada, Mama, Elliott". If I say something like "Dada loves to eat
dates", he'll say "Elliott?" (yes, Elliott likes dates too) then "Mama?" - sometimes he'll go on to Memere and
Pepere, and other family members. This whole talking thing makes car rides much easier. A half hour drive into
Burlington used to be really harrowing, but now it's usually no problem. We just play music, and/or talk to each
other, and I hand back toys now and then.
The Trip
We drove down to Mass. this week for my dad's father's funeral, unfortunately. Elliott had a really hard time in
the car. He played for the first hour, then slept for an hour, and then got progressively less patient and more
annoyed, but we did finally make it down. It was hot as heck, topping 100 F outside as we drove. Ugh! Elliott
had a blast once we got there. Memere (Nana to the rest of us) and Pepere's back yard was full of all kinds of
fun things, like a sandbox, a bird bath, rocks, a ladder and slide, a big pile of compost, sticks, etc. Elliott
was too excited to eat any real food (and had snacked on crackers and raisins in the car anyway), but he magically
found lots of room when Memere offered him a chocolate covered ice cream popsicle, which he devoured.
Elliott really enjoyed playing with "Baby Mya", who we talk about frequently, since we hand toys down to her.
She's at a very fun and interesting age, since she can sit up, crawl a bit, and grab onto toys. Elliott offered
his yellow race car to her, which is a sign of true love. :-)
Elliott was pretty good at the funeral, but he would not stop talking during the service (flowers! see! have it!
down! flowers - yellow, orange, white!" etc), and Mike had to take him out of the room. He really enjoyed his
cousins (who he'd never met) and had a good time at the reception following. He discovered butterfly-shaped
crackers, which were a huge hit. Then we went downstairs and found the motherload of cool legos, including
treasure chests full of practically microscopic toy money, which he thought was the coolest thing. In spite of
the sad occasion, it was nice to be able to see everyone, and I'm glad we went.
We headed back to Memere and Pepere's house for a nap and supper before driving back up. Elliott actually sacked
out in the car, which was unheard of, and I carried him upstairs where he passed out quickly. Unfortunately, the
monitor I used was horrible, and he woke up, but I didn't hear him, and by the time I got up there, he was
hysterically crying "mama mama" while running from front room to back room. I felt horrible. He was REALLY
upset, and really wasn't himself for the next week or so. The drive back up was also rotten. He didn't fall
asleep in the car until the Richmond exit (15 minutes from home). We spent the whole time trying to entertain
him, passing toys back, playing with some new toys from Ellen (including a cool projecting viewmaster which was
great until Elliott pulled out the circle cartridge and tried to crumple it up - sigh!). He chanted "mama nummy,
down, all done, down, out, out out!" the whole way home. It was very tiring for everyone. I'll never go on such a
short trip again - next time we'll try to stay for a week, or at least a long weekend.
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